Alright, you people up here in the front, move to the back. I want
you to give your seats to my friends. Friends, move up higher. That might be a
little humorous for us today, but imagine in real life, then and now.
Pliny the Younger, a Roman who
lived from 61 until 100 CE, wrote of a banquet he attended: “Some very elegant
dishes were served up to [the host] and a few more; while those which were
placed before the rest were cheap and paltry. He apportioned three different
sorts of wine; but you are not to suppose it was that the guests might take
their choice, on the contrary, that they might not choose at all. You must know
that he measures out his friendship according to the degrees of quality.”
So when Jesus speaks of moving up higher, it’s not just for
conversation with the host, but for the best food and wine, and to be seen by
others. But what does this mean for us?
Imagine for a moment that you’ve been invited to a wedding. It was
lovely, and as you move into the banquet room you see it’s very beautifully
decorated.
There are name cards at each place and a porter sends you to table
20, in the corner, near the entrance used by the wait staff as they come and
go. Great. When the bridal party enters you look for an empty place. You move
their name card to your place in the corner and you move up higher, to their
place, table 4, right up front. Just as the speeches and toasts are starting,
one of the porters comes over and says, “I’m sorry sir, there’s been a mix-up.
This place is for Miss Martin, and my seating chart shows your place just over
there. Come, I’ll show you. [Pause] You know many of the people in this room
and they are all looking at you as though you’re in handcuffs being taken to
jail. “For all who exalt themselves will be humbled,” Jesus said.
Imagine again. You’re at your place in the corner, table 20, by
the door. The bride and groom are walking about, talking with the guests. They
get to you and are genuinely surprised to see you there. They apologize for a
mistake which must have been made. They look around but see all the other
places are taken. “Why don’t you come and join us at our table. The waiter will
get a chair and bring up your plate.” Now all your friends are looking at you
differently. Some are jealous and angry while others are happy, aware of your
long relationship with the couple. “And those who humble themselves will be
exalted.”
When you try to honor yourself, it does not work. Now your honor
has been given by the bridal couple. All will see and no one can take it away.
One last imagining. You’re at the same banquet where you’ve been
assigned to table 4, right up front. A young woman arrives with a porter who
tells her to wait just a moment while he sees what he can do. It seems she has
no place to sit. You take your name card and rise from your chair, “Here, take
this place.” She protests, but you say, “Really.” You have honored both of you
by your humility and willingness to take the lowest place, and you have
followed Hebrews, which tell us today, “Do not neglect to show hospitality to
strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.”
But Jesus is not yet done with the Pharisee. After this teaching
on humility, Jesus continues with a harder teaching for his host, the other
Pharisees, and for us: “When you give a banquet,” he says, “invite the poor,
the crippled, the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed, because they
cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
What a teaching! What Jesus suggests is really incredible: invite
people—all of whom are ritually unclean—to a banquet hosted by one whose focus
in life, whose way to salvation, is to follow the laws of Moses and be clean.
“This man is telling me to throw away the law,” he thinks, “and to spend my
life unclean, disobedient, and unsaved. I cannot do that. These people will
defile me.”
It might be hard for us to understand the significance of ritually
clean and unclean to this Pharisee. Maybe it’s like a very fastidious
housekeeper who keeps plastic covers on the living room furniture, a room not
even the family can use, a person who can hardly stand to have people
over—tracking in all that dirt—and now being asked to remove the covers. Maybe
it’s like having people for dinner who blow their noses at the table, cough in
your face, pick food off the floor and eat it, and who reach into serving bowls
with their fingers. To the housekeeper and the dinner host, these people are
unclean. They are disgusting and we don’t want to be around them.
As I’ve said, we can’t really know how the Pharisee felt, but the
Bible gives us something to work with. The Laws of Moses laid out ritual purity
in extensive detail, in Leviticus, chapters 11-21. God spells out what is clean
and what is unclean; how something is made unclean, how long it must remain
unclean, and how to purify it.
Leviticus 21 gets pretty explicit: “no one who has a blemish, is
blind or lame, has a mutilated face or a limb too long, has a broken foot or
hand, a hunchback, a dwarf, a man with a blemish in his eyes or an itching
disease, scabs or crushed testicles may approach the altar.” And the chapter
ends, “So keep my charge… and do not defile yourselves: I am the LORD your God.”
All the people Jesus tells the Pharisees to invite are unclean and
to be near them makes the Pharisee unclean. These guests make the house
unclean, the dishes the wine goblets, the mat and chairs on which they sat: all
unclean. A priest would have to follow the rituals of purification. All would
have to be washed and would be unclean until evening. Clay pots would be
broken. Examining these purity laws helps us to understand better why the
priest and the Levite passed by the beaten man in the parable of the Good
Samaritan. There would have been consequences.
Jesus said to invite such people and we could share a meal, but in
stony silence? What would we say? I’m certain that all of us would have
something to say, something unpleasant, something disagreeable, somehow left
unsaid. I can’t think of anything I might say to give insight to the homophobe
or the racist. I might simply sit and wait for the meal to end. But that would
be a waste, it would not be living the Gospel. If I could let go of my fear and
anger and just be able to “be” there, that would be a start. Someone might join
me—or I them. No one’s going to have “a come to Jesus moment,” but I can see
how the stony silence might change to wordless quiet. There are always possibilities
with God.
Can we create community without speech? Of course we can. Can we
make change without words? Of course we can. St. Francis knew it, “Preach the
Gospel at all times,” he said, “Use words if necessary.”
Wondering what the Pharisee and his unclean guests might talk
about, I realized that it wasn’t just the conversation that Jesus was after, it
was community. Creation or restoration of community. Each time Jesus healed or
revived, community was restored, and this is no different.
In challenging the purity laws we might be tempted to think Jesus
is getting rid of some parts of the Law, but that’s not so: He’s changing our
relationship to the Law. He’s turning things upside-down. He’s taking us deeper
into the dream of God.
A few weeks ago we heard Jesus tell the Pharisees that it’s what
comes out of the body that defiles, not what goes in. So today, it’s not the
presence of the unclean that defiles, it’s what’s in the mind and heart of the
Pharisee that defiles him.
Jesus’s words today reinforce all the times he’s spoken of the
first and the last. Giving a banquet for the “unclean” supports Matthew 25 when
Jesus said, “to invite the poor, crippled, lame, the blind,” That anyone
holding a banquet for those they don’t know are welcoming the stranger who
might be an angel.
There is so much learning to take home today. Humility. Be
yourself. Why meet Jesus as someone else? Take the lower place. Give your place
to one who needs it. Welcome the stranger. It’s what comes out of us that
defiles. Throw a party for those you don’t know, who can’t repay you. You will
be richer.
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