Monday, October 17, 2022

With the end in mind. October 16, 2022. The Rev. David M. Stoddart

Luke 18:1-8

The late Nobel laureate and holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel once recounted an incident that happened when he was 15 years old and a prisoner at Auschwitz. One day a group of his fellow prisoners who were also Jewish scholars put God on trial, accusing him of being indifferent to the suffering of his people and failing to save them. After much discussion, they reached a unanimous verdict: chayav, guilty. After pronouncing it, Wiesel said, there was a minute or so of silence – and then they all said evening prayers together. What a striking, even shocking juxtaposition: God doesn’t care . . . Let us pray.

 Consider with me for a moment: why do we pray? Maybe we just go to church on Sundays and say grace before meals because it’s a habit, something we think we are supposed to do. Or maybe we pray every day that God will bless the people we love. Maybe we ask God for particular things, like getting a new job or being healed of some disease. Maybe we just pray when we feel desperate and don’t know what else to do. But if we have prayed at all, then we will probably be able to sympathize with those Jewish scholars putting God on trial. We are not, thankfully, in a concentration camp — hopefully none of us here has ever experienced something so horrific — but many of us here have no doubt prayed for things that we did not get: healings that did not take place, blessings that never materialized. And perhaps we also felt that God was indifferent to our prayers, or at least nonresponsive. S0 we might well ask ourselves: why do we pray?

 Jesus tackles that question in the Gospel today, but I don’t think his message is as simple and straightforward as it might at first appear. He tells this parable about a widow who relentlessly hounds an indifferent judge until he finally gives in and grants her request. If a sinful judge like that will respond to such pleas, Jesus says, how much more will a good and loving God respond to us: And will not God grant justice to his chosen ones who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long in helping them? I tell you, he will quickly grant justice to them. The problem is that we know God does not always respond quickly to us. In many cases, God never seems to respond at all. And Jesus knows this. He tells this parable while the Roman Empire is oppressing the Jewish people in an occupation that has already lasted decades and will go on for many years to come, even though they are praying for deliverance. Jesus knows that when the Israelites called out from their captivity in Egypt, they remained slaves for some four hundred years. In John’s Gospel, he encounters a man who has been ill for 38 years. Will he delay long in helping them? Well, yeah, he will. People have faced long delays in the past; they continue to experience long delays in the present.

 And since Jesus clearly knows this, the problem must be with our interpretation. A simplistic, transactional understanding of prayer – “tell God what you want, and God will give it to you fast” – just won’t suffice, even if we add the caveat, “you gotta tell God a lot.” It just doesn’t work that way. I think the only way we can understand this teaching, and the way I think Jesus meant us to understand it, with the end in mind, the final consummation of all things. It’s only then that God’s justice will be fully established, only then that God’s love will fully prevail. And while that may seem a long ways off to us, in the light of eternity it will come quickly. We know Jesus is thinking along these lines because he says:  And yet, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth? He’s referring to his coming again at the end of time. Will people persevere in prayer until that time, even when they receive no immediate reply? Will you and I persevere?

 We might say, “What’s the point? Why pray when we don’t get instant gratification?” But prayer is not about instant gratification. Prayer is not transactional at all. A few moments ago I asked, why do we pray? But that was a trick question: Jesus actually tells us why at the very beginning of the passage: Then Jesus told them a parable about their need to pray always and not to lose heart. People, we pray so that we don’t lose heart. What matters in prayer is not the outcome: what matters is the connection. When we pray, we stay connected to God’s presence and grounded in God’s love. That is the beginning and end of all true prayer, and the source of tremendous strength and endless hope.

 But here’s the amazing thing about God’s economy of salvation. If we adopt a tit-for-tat idea of prayer – God, I’ll say these words if you’ll give me what I want – our prayer will probably not be productive at all. But when we love God, love others, and love ourselves in prayer and through prayer, then the Spirit moves and our prayer often does produce visible results. When our focus is on loving and not losing heart, then God’s power is unleashed and good things happen, things that lead to greater justice, greater healing, greater peace. We can’t control how that happens, nor should we try: we don’t have the wisdom for that. But consciously staying connected to God’s presence and staying grounded in God’s love changes the world and gives us all we need until God’s kingdom comes in all its fullness.

 Let me end with a story. Years ago, when I was serving a parish in Rhode Island, one of my parishioners had liver cancer. The prognosis was bad from the beginning. Praying for the cancer to go away did not work: the cancer continued to spread. Feeling powerless, all I could do was to pray for God’s love to enfold him and all who were close to him. One day, towards the end, I visited him and prayed with him. But right as I was about to leave, he did something he had never done before. He took my hands and said, “Now I want to pray.” And he thanked God for his wife and his children, for his church and for me, and told God how much he loved God and all of these people. It was a holy moment. He died not long afterwards. Did our prayer work? He lost his battle with cancer, but he did not lose heart. Nor did I. I know that I will see him fully alive and healed in the world to come, along with everyone else I’ve ever cared for. And until then, I keep on praying, with or without visible results. I have experienced the reality of God’s love – and that is reason enough to pray and never to lose heart.

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