Tuesday, August 15, 2017

No Separation 8/6/17 The Rev. David M. Stoddart



Luke 9:28-36

Moses’ face was shining, and the Israelites were afraid to come near him. Jesus’ face was shining, and his disciples were terrified. What do you think everyone is so afraid of? It would be simple and perhaps tempting to hear these passages superficially as “scary god” stories. The “scary god” notion is, unfortunately, so deeply embedded in our minds and in our culture that this would be the easiest way to interpret these stories. God is scary: he is a huge guy in the sky with a big beard and an even bigger temper. He is irascible and vindictive, routinely dishing out diseases and disasters as punishment. If we get everything right and live the way we’re supposed to, then God will love us and be nice to us, but that’s always a big “if.” The only certain thing is that most people make God angry and it is only a lucky few saints and superhumans who manage to consistently stay on his good side. So, yeah, coming into close contact with that God would be frightening and would explain the behavior of the Israelites and the disciples in these readings.

Except that it doesn’t make any sense. There is no scary god in these stories. The face of Moses is shining because, as Exodus tells us just a few verses before this passage, when Moses talked to God, the LORD spoke to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend (Exod. 33:11). The light they see on his face is the light of friendship and love. And when Jesus goes up the mountain, he brings his three closest friends with him, Peter, James, and John, who then see their friend revealed as he truly is, with all the love of God shining out of his face. These people are not afraid of lightning bolts or punishments. There is something far scarier than that going on in these two passages. And it shouldn’t completely surprise us. You know, various polling groups and research studies regularly publish articles about the things people fear the most. And the list of things people are most afraid invariably include old favorites like snakes, heights, flying, public speaking, going to the dentist, and death. But perhaps the most telling fear of all, and the most pertinent as we hear these texts today, is the fear of intimacy, the fear of being vulnerable and really loving someone else and really allowing someone else to love us as we are.

I am convinced that provides us with the key to fully grasping these two stories today because what these people encounter is the love of God. I don’t mean benign indifference, some deity patting us on the head and saying, “Oh, sure, whatever.” I mean pure, unadulterated love, the love that pierces the depths and gazes into our hearts and minds and sees everything: every lie, every pretense, every addiction, every heinous thought, every hurtful word, every hateful act — and loves us, loves us completely and thoroughly, always forgiving us, always working to heal us and make us whole so we can enjoy fullness of life forever. Paul sums it up in Romans: God proves his love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us. This is the Good News, no strings attached — and it scares the hell out of people. Literally. Hell is just separation from God, but to experience God’s love means to know there is no separation. God loves us no matter what.

And that “no matter what” part is frightening because it makes us so vulnerable: we are left to receive love as a gift. It’s all we can do, but we’re not good at that. I have been paying attention of late to advertisements and internet memes, and there is a message I encounter over and over again. Here are just some of the catchy phrases I have seen and heard: “Earned, not given.” “Everything is worth more when you have to earn it.” “If you earn it, you will appreciate it more.” “Trust isn’t given, it’s earned.” “Success is not given, it is earned.” “Respect is something earned, not something given.” “Everything is worth more when you have to earn it.” “My love is not a lottery. You can’t win it, you have to earn it.” I could go on and on. Our culture is obsessed with earning things. It satisfies our egos to think that we deserve everything we have. And, conversely, that people who lack anything just don’t deserve it because they haven’t earned it. And while there is some limited value to that approach — encouraging a good work ethic, that kind of thing — the whole “earning worthiness” system completely falls apart when it comes to God’s love, or love in general, and that threatens our whole way of being in the world and it unnerves people. Several years ago I did some pastoral counseling with a man, and I was able to help him during a difficult time. And so he insisted on paying me, but I refused it. This is my job, and I wasn’t going to take money from him for helping him. But he wanted to feel like he somehow earned it by paying for it: “I am not a charity case!”

Dear people: we are all charity cases! Every blessed one of us! We exist because God loves us. I get no brownie points for being a priest. You get no brownie points for being in church today. We get no brownie points for all our good deeds and kind words. We don’t need any! God already loves us infinitely. We could be in church every day for the rest of our lives and give all our money away to the poor, and we could not make God love us any more than God loves us right now. There is nothing we can do to make God love us more, and there is nothing we can do to make God love us less. We could go out and lie, cheat, and steal; we could become murderers and terrorists, and still God would love us. That is so shocking and so upsetting to our human ego systems, and the change of perspective it demands is so dizzying, that the Bible uses very dramatic language to describe it: being transformed, being born from above, being filled with the Holy Spirit, dying in order to live. But when people get it, it changes everything, and their whole being shines. Look at Moses. Look at Jesus.


Look at yourself. There is so much damage done by people who have never experienced unconditional love. This world desperately needs the good news of God’s love to shine out in the lives of believers like you and me. If the thought of that is scary, so be it. Admit the fear, but open yourself up to the love. There is nothing we can do to earn it: it is already ours. So we don’t have to judge ourselves any more. We don’t have to judge other people any more or compare ourselves with them. We don’t have to decide who’s worthy and who’s not. We don’t have to boost our fragile egos by pretending we have earned a place in heaven or by trying to keep others out. We are free: free to live and to love and to share in God’s ongoing work of forgiving and healing and restoring the whole of creation. Yes, even you and I. Scary, yes — and awesome. Let your light shine by first letting God’s love in.

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