Monday, February 27, 2023

A plan for Lent. February 26, 2023. The Rev. Kathleen M. Sturges

 

Genesis 2:15-17,25; 3:1-7, Matthew 4:1-11

What is it about Lent that makes me want to consume a whole gallon of ice cream? I’m like Pavlov’s dog when I hear the word Lent. I start to drool and am tempted by things that don’t seem very Lent-ish. Cookies, ice cream, chocolate all call my name even more persistently around this time of year. Plus, on this first Sunday in Lent, I experience an impish desire to shout out the one word that is forbidden in church between now and Easter. You know the word…it starts with an “A.” I get the reason why we don’t say it. Tucking that word away and doing other things like taking the flowers off the altar and removing the hangings help us to mark this season as a particularly reflective and penitential time. Yet the temptation persists. If I say “Alleluia” in a sermon can I get away with it? Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia…no lightning yet. Hopefully I’m safe.

There are, however, much greater temptations out there that aren’t so tongue in cheek. The temptation to lash out in anger, to overindulge, to control others, to lie, cheat or steal especially when we think no one will ever know, the temptation to abuse various substances…the list is long and varied because the temptation to do things that are not the most loving or Christ-like abounds. And it’s not just about what we do or don’t do. Our inner life matters too. Judgmental thoughts, bitterness, envy, selfish desires and more all come under scrutiny. Resisting temptation is hard - plain and simple.

 Because that is so, for Lent this year my plan is to get curious. To get curious and to practice asking myself one particular question, “What am I afraid of?” Because, more often than not, I think it is fear that drives us into temptation. Fear of financial insecurity. Fear of abandonment. Fear of aging. Fear of being alone. Fear of pain or illness. Fear of death. Fear of not being good enough. Sometimes the fear is free-floating - one that will not settle on just one fear but stirs up the dust in all the trash bins of life. It seems to me that Lent provides a perfect time to admit that we are full of various kinds of fears and confess our inability to do anything about it on our own.

 No surprise that fear has been with us from the very start. We see it take root in the story of Adam and Eve. Here are two people who had everything they could ever want. Lots of food, no need for closets or storage units. A partner hand-picked by God. Plenty of pets but no litter boxes or leashes to deal with. They got their steps in every day by strolling with the Almighty. It was paradise! But even paradise turned out not to be enough. Crafty was the serpent in floating the idea that maybe, just maybe, there was more to be had. Perhaps God didn’t really have Adam and Eve’s best interests at heart. That, ultimately, God couldn’t be trusted - and so was planted the seed of fear in the garden of Eden. And boy did it flourish.

 Dig deep enough and I think you will find that at the root of all of our fears is a lack of trust in God. When we don’t think that we can trust God it is then we are tempted to grasp at just about anything else in a desperate hope of feeling secure. And it’s not just God that is hard to trust. Distrust is also common in our experiences with one another. We trust people with our love, our future, our well-being, our secrets, our children, our parents, our money. But even those with the best of intentions let us down - or worse, outright betray us. Once burned or maybe twice or three times, we are tempted to never trust again. And we are tempted to believe that God is like the people we know. So the question that the serpent stirred up in the garden becomes ours as well. Is God trustworthy?

 That question also comes up in our reading from the gospel of Matthew. Jesus is straight out of his baptism where he has just heard God proclaim,“This is my Son, the Beloved, with whom I am well pleased.” But now in the wilderness that is called into question. Part of the temptation that the devil stirs up is to cast doubts about that. “Really?” he asks over and over again as he says, “IF you are the Son of God” do this or that… It’s an attempt to, once again, plant that seed of distrust. God says you are the Beloved Son but how can you really be sure? Jesus’ response? He doesn’t take the bait. Instead he responds with the assurance of scripture. Jesus trusts God. He knows whose Beloved Son he is and rejects the temptation to distrust God even when life isn’t smooth - even when that trust will eventually lead him to the cross.

 Oftentimes the takeaway message from this story goes something along the lines of, “Be like Jesus and don't give in to temptation.” Which isn't a bad message but it's an adequate one. The “Just say No!” approach to any temptation produces mixed results, at best. That's because - news flash - we're not Jesus. We don't have his ability to say, “No,” over and over and over again to temptation. Fear has disordered us this way. We may believe there is a God. We may want to trust God. But when we are insecure and filled with fear? That’s a tall order.

 So we’ve already established that I’m not Jesus and neither are you. But Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit does dwell within each and every one of us. Which means we can turn to God - and to each other - for help in all the fearful temptations of life. And as we do, as we turn towards God who is love, fear subsides. Because - and I’m going to follow Jesus’ lead here and quote scripture by saying - “It is written.” There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. (1 John 4:18)

 This Lent I invite you to join me in getting curious. Consider taking up the practice of regularly asking yourself, “What am I afraid of?” and then listen. Pay attention to what the answer may be. Bring it before God and listen again. Let God speak to you of your belovedness, for you too are a child of God in whom God is well pleased. Let the power of that love do its holy work - casting out fear and making room for more trust. For it is written, The Lord is trustworthy in all he promises and faithful in all he does (Psalm 145:13b, NIV). May we never be tempted to believe otherwise.

 

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